Hey gals, these are my tips to reaching orgasm..
The reason I'm putting this up is because I reduced my time from about half hour, to under 6 mins. So I guess I'm doing something right.
Ya see, no guy (or gal (besides me)) has ever made me orgasm, and so I've had a lot of practise at it.. Ya know, it's not just guys that finish themselves off after a gal turns round and says "they're tired now". After a guys come, and fallen asleep, I still carry on going til I get there.. :P why not?
The first time I had sex I think was probably the closest I've been to orgasm.. Lol I find it ironic that the more skilled I get, and know how to ask my partner for things I want done, the further away from orgasm I get. Either that or just the fact that the guy I first had sex with was just AWESOME, and had sex a FEW more times than he said he had.. :P

Anyway, back to the tips..
Lying on your back will help you to understand this movement more. Basically, try and move your hips towards your head, without using your legs. Your stomach should tense, and you should feel like the muscles deep in your bum are working hard too.. (I don't know how else to describe it). And also tense the muscles you use to stop yourself peeing when you need the loo. Then, lie on your back, and do exactly the same thing. Eventually you should start to feel a burn of holding that position, but don't worry, that's GOOD! The burn should be in your stomach mostly, and a little in your back too. Then, put your hand behind your back, reach over your bum, and just play with your clit. I find it helps to just put my finger on it, push a little, and move it side to side really fast. But if you have your own technique from there on in, go for it. Each woman is different.
Just remember to hold that position, I don't know what it is that makes it feel so goddamn good, all I know is that it works for me. Also, as I said before, each woman is different, so it might not work. So for those of you who it doesn't work for, just keep playing! And don't expect to orgasm in five minutes every time! It's takes a while, and a lot of effort! Just keep playing!! :P


Please comment, I'll be glad to answer any questions! :D